Get the hell out of my life: Parents interfering after you leave the house

I will never, ever understand how the hell people can let their parent’s completely control their lives. Not even as teenagers and children, it makes sense to let them have some control then, they know what the hell is going on and you don’t because your a kid or even worse a teenager and thus utterly distracted by whatever in the nine hells is going on in your own little world. That’s just how things go, it’s life it’s natural. However… it’s also natural for that shit to end, and like fast. Yeah you can still have a relationship with your parents after you’ve gone and “grown up” but that relationship is supposed to change to one of adult to adult, no longer does that parent have that controlling influence because your ass is in the captain’s chair for the S.S. Your Freakin Life.

Apparently some people don’t get that, apparently they don’t get that at all. We (being my wife and I) just got in to a situation where a friendship was utterly ruined between my wife and a very good friend of hers thanks to the actions and manipulations of her mother. The sad reality of it is that this woman’s mother rules that household and she (Nalora’s friend) doesn’t have the spine required to stand up to her, not even in the slightest does she have the necessary spine.

The thing about that is not that it’s rare, it’s fucking common as hell. Controlling psychotic parents just utterly dominating their children’s lives I mean come on, grow some spine and actually get out there for yourself. Unless you do things and live for yourself, all you really are is an outlet for your parents to do it all again and they’ve had their fucking shot, if they want to live vicariously through you, you need to tell them to fuck the hell off and get them to go out and live some more, hell my 65 year old aunt is a freakin nun and she’s still out there living and having incredible life experiences, there’s no reason no one else can do that.

Cut the apron strings, wiggle out of the leash and liberate your self from your folks, it’s your life and existence, live it the way you bloody well want to.

Quote of the Post:
“Give me liberty or give me death”
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